Swinging the Lead

An idiom that has some merits perhaps? It describes somebody who avoids work by giving the appearance of toiling but not actually doing anything significant. Its origins are in naval […]

The House that Jack Built

I have been working with Vanda North on her Mind Chi project – you will hear a lot more about this next year as there is significant media interest in […]

Little White Lies

I can’t make my mind up about little white lies.  So I thought I’d open it up for public debate!  You see, I think that deceit has a strong tendency to […]

Four Hugs a Day – leadership

You need four hugs a day just to start feeling good! Indeed the moment you feel an all embracing hug you can’t help but smile – you really can’t. It’s […]

Love Letters – (I Love Feb #3)

I have been thinking about love letters this week; a lot, and wondering if they are a dying art.  I wrote and received love letters when I was a teenager […]

What’s in a name?

Valery Coburn gave a wonderful seven minute Toastmasters speech on how important your name is.  Her take on this was that your given full name was very powerful in terms […]

Postscrips from Sir Benfro

You have got to listen to this whilst reading this post!  Have a nice day by the Welsh band Sterophonics  … http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1rPe0BtYvTA I have just returned from a long weekend […]

The Point of NO Return

If only I could learn to say the word no  ….  I mean; how hard can it be? no, no, nO, No, no, no, nO, no, no, no, no, no, no, […]

Brilliant is the New Black

Back in Black Those of you who don’t know what I do for a living, I run the ‘brilliant’ BusinessXchange programme.  I have been referring this Business Link service with […]

Ladies who Lunch

Now you need to know that I am on holiday this week so you must allow me a little leeway in my thought meanderings on this little idiom. This stopping […]

Stiff Upper Lip – Strategic Networking

Over the past five months many have asked me how my clients are finding and coping with the credit crunch crisis.  Almost without exception I firmly say positively. That is […]

Goodbye Cruel World!

I’ve decided to leave our world this weekend.  The weather is looking perfect for a sojourn into the Land.  I’m going to find a comfortable spot with a stunning view.  […]

The Acid Test

And now for something seriously different!  The acid test is an accepted process of finding out whether something is genuine or not.  Gold is one of the few precious metals […]

Stuff and Nonsense! – Grammar et al

Stuff and nonsense is an exclamation of incredulity!  I think, perhaps that I favour the Aussie alternative of Codswallop.  A term derived from a derogatory description for a new craze […]

Content is Crucial

I loved this utterance by Lord Althorp, Charles Spencer, during “The Speaker”. It is a BBC’s programme on a quest to find Britain’s best young orator. Having eloquent body language, […]

High Touch Relationships

Valentine’s Day is fast approaching and so what better time to consider how we build, develop and maintain the important relationships in our lives.  Whether these are business or personal […]

A Fickle Femme – The Writer’s Way

She adds after a fractional hesitation.  “You?” “Bloody, John the store man messed up again today; he gave us three windows up at Portland where none of the glass fitted.  […]

Friends

Today I have had the honour of knowing the best of true friendship.  I don’t need to mention those by name as they will know who they are.  And this […]

OMG you didn’t? – The Writer’s Way

In this exercise from The Writer’s Way, Sara Maitland asks us to record snippets of character insights.  Tiny things count.  For example: Your reaction on meeting a person for the first […]

Five Strategies to Thrive

Remember the 80/20 rule Sure, we are in a down turn – we have a half a percent decrease in gross domestic product.  However, it is just half a percent.  […]

The Five Minute Bio – a Toastmasters Speech (3)

The well-written biography is a fundamental marketing tool for all professionals, whether you are employed or self-employed.  Its power is all too frequently overlooked.  Let me reiterate the why.  Most people […]